Showing posts with label education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label education. Show all posts

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Teachers are Only Human, Folks.

http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/08/monmouth_county_teacher_will_p.html

Let me start by saying that as a teacher, I try my hardest to set a good example and abide by school policy. Is it appropriate to make a personal phone call during class time? In theory, no. In actuality, perhaps. It's a judgement call, folks - one that every working person makes during his or her work day.

Should my dentist take a phone call while working on my teeth? Probably not. Has he? Yes, he has.

Has my manicurist pardoned herself to take a personal phone call? Absolutely.

And so have my shop attendants, bus drivers, police officers, toll booth workers, restaurant servers, secretaries, grocery store clerks, realtors, day care workers, pet groomers, gas station attendants, airplane pilots, and my absolute favorite call takers: the parents of my students, who have stopped and taken personal phone calls WITHOUT HESITATION during our parent/teacher conferences that THEY requested.

Heck, a dear rookie teacher I recently met told me a horror story about a high level administrator stopping an interview to APPLY MAKEUP - not just dab on some Chapstick because his or her lips were drying out from talking, friends, oh no. This administrator actually stopped the interview and fished a compact mirror, lipstick, AND lipliner from his or her purse and proceeded to do a full application.

Is that appropriate in theory OR in actuality? Hmm, I think we would all agree that bold move was uncalled for, period.

But do I think that admin should be fined $22,000?

No, I don't. To me, it seems the appropriate response to the lipstick situation is a no brainer - the administrator should be spoken to one - to - one by his or her supervisor to determine if he or she had a good reason for applying makeup during a professional interview (such as "my lipstick is actually a cleverly designed applicator for a vital medication that I must take once an hour; it allows me to intake my needed dose without the stigma of popping pills hourly in front of strangers) and if a good reason is not supplied, then the admin should receive a written warning that if the behavior continues, he or she may be reprimanded further - but that reprimand should not be in the form of a fine. A weeks' suspension, perhaps; forewarned loss of pay is not the same as paying a fine.

Why is it that teachers are penalized for making slight errors in judgement above and beyond other workers in society? Don't get me wrong - I'm not talking about MAJOR offenses such as diddling kiddies, drinking on the job, putting students in harm's way, slugging a kid, etc.

I'm talking about errors such as taking a two second personal phone call from a nanny when a child is sick, making an offhand comment without thinking, giving students a study hall at the onset of a raging migraine, leaving students unattended in a classroom to run to the bathroom and deal with a leaky tampon, etc.

Many are quick to judge teachers for simply being fallible human beings yet God forbid if a teacher ever has the audacity to cast judgement on the precious children of his or her jurors or on the jurors themselves.

Cast not the first stone, readers, or in this ridiculous court case, the first fine, unless you are ready to play by the same rules.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Kids and School



When, at breakfast this morning, my soon to be MIL commented, "You love your job, don't you, Ali?", I rolled my eyes and shuddered.

As if conjured by a charm, images of this past year's Period 4 English experience flooded my mind. While I LOVED the kids in that class as individuals, together as a group they drove me to the brink of madness and I can say that publicly and candidly because they know it.

They also know that I loved them and that to this day, I will go out of my way to help any of them but I'll never sugarcoat how difficult it was to teach them.

Fortunately, they had me as their teacher and I'm not saying that to sound conceited or to imply that I'm the world's greatest teacher because I'll be the first to admit that I'm not; I have A LOT of faults as an educator however luckily, the way I feel about and understand teenagers isn't one of them.

Did my Period 4 English class purposefully try to drive me insane? No. Was the atmosphere of that class the fault of an individual(s)? No. Would the experience of that same group of students have been the same if it had a different teacher? NO.

Then why was teaching that group of kids difficult?

I don't know - it just was and that's the point of this post.

Teaching is not easy - AT ALL. But learning isn't easy, either. And unfortunately, there isn't much that can be done to make either of them fool proof and, in my opinion, that's ok as long as both parties try its hardest to put forth a positive attitude and a true effort and, most importantly, as long as both parties care about one another as individuals. Mutual respect goes A LONG WAY in the classroom and in the long run, will teach a student more than a text book ever could.